Women are the most romantic of the sexes and as urban legend goes have the most romanticism involved in the love making process.
So, the thought of going through the back door does not sound appealing to you, but what holds you back?
You either love it or you don't!
Most women are curious but their upbringing prevents them from exploring this dirty little hole, what the spiritual belief in certain cultures says this is a definite no go zone.
Women are also afraid of the whole dirty aspect and poking their fingers in a potential vacuum of expired food matter just drives them over the edge.
There is a deep sexual connotation to making love from behind and as a beginner there are certain criteria that women should follow:
Hygiene is of the utmost importance, make sure your hands are clean and that your nails are clipped short. Douching is a way of cleaning the rectum out and can be done the same way as vaginal douching. Basically an enema to clean the cavity out, you can make this into a pleasurable experience with your partner as well.
If using a dildo or any either toy, ensure that they are all sanitized and cleaned. It is also not advisable to swap from vagina to anus with your toys while making love.
Rimming or licking the anus is pleasurable and needs both partners to be totally comfortable in putting their tongues in and around the anus cavity.
Lubrication is essential as the anus does not self lubricate as efficiently as the vagina does. Also it is advisable to use lubricant that is intended for anal penetration.
Patience is also a vital ingredient as penetration with your finger or toy into the anal cavity is a slow process and the anus is stretched to accommodate this new pleasure seeking device.
Set the scene and explore, slowly, softly and as only women can and you will both be on your way to new adventures.
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